DRIBS & DRABS of J

十二大情人节

2012-02-03T23:58:00.002+10:00

Just to share a bit with you guys!

（十二大情人节） =]
1 月 14 日 - 日记情人节 Diary Day
2 月 14 日 - 西洋情人节 Valenties's Day
3 月 14 日 - 白色情人节 White Day
4 月 14 日 - 黑色情人节 Black Day
5 月 14 日 - 玫瑰情人节 Rose Day
6 月 14 日 - 亲吻情人节 Kiss Day
7 月 14 日 - 银色情人节 Silver Day
8 月 14 日 - 绿色情人节 Green Day
9 月 14 日 - 音乐情人节 / 相片情人节 Music Day / Photo Day
10 月 14 日 - 葡萄酒情人节 Wine Day
11 月 14 日 - 橙色情人节 / 电影情人节 Orange Day / Movie Day
12 月 14 日 - 拥抱情人节 Hug Day

百般纠结

2012-01-26T03:53:00.000+10:00

又回到我熟悉的地方，感觉却有点陌生！离开了一年，很多东西都变得不一样了，新的面孔，新的店面，还有很多很多...

今天，我终于见到他了，差不多一年没有见面没有联络的他... 真的很希望能够问他些什么，却总是没办法开口，想了想，这样的朋友关系是不是会好过进一步的情侣关系呢？最终，没能开口，也不方便在他朋友面前把礼物交给他，我把他的生日礼物留在后座，就下车了... 我真的很希望有更多的时间和他单独相处，却不敢，也找不到理由可以和他单独出去，我没有那个勇气，真的没有...

昨天和朋友们开开心心的出去喝酒唱歌，却在不知不觉中留下了眼泪，把朋友们都给吓坏了... 哭的原因其实我也不太清楚，只知道自己想起他的时候，心很痛，然后眼眶就湿了... 朋友说我傻，我不是不知道... 他们叫我大胆的去问问他的想法，我不是不想问，而是很害怕，害怕失去了这段友谊，害怕以后见面会尴尬...

我人还在澳洲的时候都不太会流泪的，却在越接近回来的时候心里开始不自觉得纠结，看着身边的朋友都在谈恋爱，自己却在无止境的等待一段也许永远都不可能会得到答案的爱情，真的很困扰！恨自己的懦弱，恨自己的执著，到底那个敢爱敢恨的自己去哪了？那个一向来拿得起放得下的自己去哪了？

两年了，我真的很想知道他对我有没有感觉，却永远猜不到他在想些什么... 强求不了，我没那个勇气去求证，也许这样下去，有一天我会放得下他吧？

这个假期

2011-12-07T18:25:00.001+10:00

这几天的天气真的变化无常, 一时刮大风, 一时下大雨, 有时灰暗的渡过一整天, 有时小雨下个一整天... 明明是夏季, 却冷得像冬天, 地球真的病得很严重...
以前的我, 很喜欢雨天, 总觉得可以淋雨是一件很快乐的事, 也许是因为本身淋再多的雨都不会生病的关系吧? 要说我身体很健康吗? 不见得! 至少我知道自己身体到底哪里有问题, 可是就算知道, 有时还是会很犯贱的不顾一切做自己爱做的事情, 只希望可以让自己在当下快乐一些些...
现在的我, 看到雨天就只想躲在家里, 什么都不做, 懒懒地对着电脑荧幕无所事事的, 简直是人生一大享受! 有时候逼不得已要出门, 还会对着雨天咒骂, 麻烦的是要带雨伞呀! 手上还要大包小包的哪怕任何一样东西会被淋湿!
除了工作, 就是和朋友出门走走, 吃喝玩乐... 成绩已经出炉了, 该找的教师也找了, 该做的也做了, 改变不了的事实也就罢了, 我不想让自己想太多, 只希望让自己压力少一点, 虽然还是很对不起家人, 尤其是妈咪...
自知消瘦了许多, 不是我不吃, 只是真的没有什么食欲, 食物总是在吃不到一半就觉得饱了, 再继续吃只觉得很辛苦! 明明是要尽量增肥的, 却恰好相反! 气死我了!!!
现在就是搞签证的事, 等这是弄好了, 才可以计划接下来要怎么走... 保佑我一切顺利, 拜托!

HOLIDAY

2011-11-10T00:30:00.000+10:00

Just finished the very last submission, to be frank, without any confidence whether I'm gonna pass this. However, I feel really lucky that my family will always stand by my side no matter what happen, especially my mom. She always says "Take it easy, as long as you've done your best, everything will be just alright." Thanks mom, I love you!

Slept for 5 hours straight after the submission, I guess I was exhausted. Called my mom to tell her that I've finally finished everything and *hopefully* I can graduate this year. Pray for myself!

Other then working, I guess I can at least enjoy my holiday before the results come out...

PHOBIC

2011-08-08T22:42:00.005+10:00

Went to someone's birthday just now. Well, the birthday girl is actually not to say my friend, just a close friend's friend.

I was busy playing with my friend's new camera that he bought few days ago. He said that he was kind of regret to get that camera instead of getting an iPad. I was actually in a moment of exciting to take over that camera with AUD650. However, when I posted my thought on Facebook, the feedback that I got wasn't good, claiming that the price for a second hand camera was way too high. I felt so sorry to him with my excitement on wanting his camera so much at first but never got any good comments from my friends which actually made me kind of down on giving up the camera. When I was still busy playing with his camera and stuff, I heard screaming from the kitchen. Didn't really care much about that, maybe they were just too happy on something.

Dinner time! Before getting settled at the dining table, the birthday girl continued her screaming. And the reason behind that, was actually about something happened to her car. Her friends had actually got way too drunk until threw out in her new car! She brought it for car washing and stuff but still the interior stink. Well, I can understand that she was really mad about that and definitely pissed off. Still I don't think that she can scream as her will at the dining table when everyone else was trying to enjoy their dinner. It really annoyed me! Now I know how squeamish a person can be! To be honest, I don't really have friends are as freaky as she is and if I do, that friend will definitely a black listed one.

Too tired to actually say a word, I emptied everything out from my plate, helped myself out of the dining table. Walked straight back into my friend's room and continued my Facebook. After having a piece of the green tea birthday cake which sweeten up my mood a little bit, I left the house at no time!

Right before I stepped into my apartment unit, I can tell that the stereo on the other side was to the max. Housemates were having another birthday party at the living hall. DAMN! How come I forgot about that. They were just about to start when I left for dinner just now. I opened the door slowly, just in case I knocked someone behind the door. They were all sitting in circle, staring at me. I smiled at them gently, and walked into my room. Few seconds later, 3 of my housemates knocked on my door, asking me to join them for the night. "Sorry, but I've got some work to do still, can't really join you guys. Just take your time, enjoy the night. No worries about the volume, I'm totally fine with that." Showing a little bit of my tiredness, they seemed to feel sorry about bothering me with the music which they can't help either. Though, I promised to join them the next time.

Nah! Compare to which I was facing at my friend's house, to be frank, I preferred the music!!! And seriously, I didn't mind much about the volume because I'd got used to it. LOL...

感动。朋友

2011-08-06T20:07:00.002+10:00

那天和朋友们去看了这部电影，我哭了两次！

第一次是在Caeser被关在笼子里想念外面世界时，对着墙壁画着自己熟悉的窗口图案...

第二次是Caeser看到自己的同伴为了自己受伤死亡的那一幕，那表情是多么的伤心欲绝...

我不知道这部电影算不算好看，可是对我来说，它是感动的...

也许很多人不会像我那样哭，其实，我自己也不懂为什么会那么感动...

可能自己太感性了吧？又或者真的是自己爱哭！

不过，倒是有个朋友会在旁边不时地拍拍我的头...

电影里到了紧张的镜头时还会被我捏着手臂的他，也只能忍痛...

至于他是不是觉得我除了傻，还有点野蛮，那就不得而知了...

但是，我的心里是温暖的，在这个寒冷的冬天里，那短短相处的时间...

他说他把我当成了妹妹，我却知道，我多了一个值得信任的朋友！

戒指的意义

2011-07-27T17:34:00.004+10:00

突然很想在部落格里写些什么，却实际上又不懂要写些什么...

你知道为什么我还是会不时地想起你吗？

你知道为什么我会那么的在乎你吗？

曾经，我是那么的潇洒洒脱...

曾经，我是个拿得起放得下的人...

曾经，我不会暗恋一个人那么久...

曾经，我是个什么都敢挑战的人...

曾经... 曾经... 曾经...

那么多的曾经...

现在，我左手中指上的那枚戒指...

它是你送给我的，不明来由的礼物...

它让我想起你，让我挂念你...

我习惯了不时地转动着它，无意间地想着你...

不管我怎样再三地告诉自己要放弃...

我心里的某一处，依然有着你的影子...

戒指的意义

按西方人的传统习惯来说，左手上显示的是上帝赐给你的运气，它是与心相关联的，因此，将戒指戴在左手上才是有意义的！  

国际上比较流行的戴法：  
1. 食指－－想结婚，表示未婚  
2. 中指－－已经在恋爱中  
3. 无名指－－已经订婚或结婚  
4. 尾指－－独身  

至于右手，在传统上也有一手戴戒指时是有意义的，就是无名指。据说戴在这里，表示具有修女的心性。  

另外，如果你喜欢一只手上戴两枚以上的戒指或者两手同时戴数枚戒指，应该注意粗细搭配适当，最好两手不要相同，一般是右二左一。  

不同手指需要用不同形状的戒指来搭配。  

食指－－是五指中最具主张性的手指，因此，戒指的形状宜纵长，镶的宝石宜大且高。  

中指－－属于个性强的手指，加上它位于正中，因此戴的戒指必须有平衡作用，方型，十字形，椭圆形的戒指，都会使左右显得平衡。  

无名指－－被认为最纤细，最美丽的手指，和它匹配的戒指应典雅，华丽，名贵的白金，珍珠，钻石戒指都不错。  

尾指娇小－－应选设计华美甜蜜试样的纤巧款式。  

当然，当你戴一种戒指的时候，无论你戴在哪里都不具备任何意义，这就是一般的花戒。这种戒指是起一种装饰的作用，可以戴在任何你想戴的手指上，没有任何拘束。结婚戒指不能用合金制造，必须用纯金，铂金或白银制成，表示爱情是纯洁的.一般情况下象古代的皇帝戴于大拇指
据说左手的无名指有一根血管直接与心脏联系，所以新人一定要把结婚戒指亲手戴在对方的左手无名指上。 
爱你到心里！情愿为你的爱而受戒！ 
戒指戴在不同的手指有不同的意义呀。 
右手和左手都有不同的意义。 
右手小指：不谈恋爱。 
右手无名指：热恋中。 
右手中指：名花有主。 
右手食指：单身贵族。 
左手小指：不婚族。 
左手无名指：结婚。 
左手中指：订婚。 
左手食指：未婚。 
大拇指都是代表权势的意思，也可以做自信的意思。 

还有一种戒指，当你戴它的时候，无论你戴在哪里都不具备任何意义，这种戒指就是一般的花戒。这种戒指是起一种装饰的作用，可以戴在任何你想戴的手指上。 

戒指戴在拇指上是十分奇怪的，因此不推荐。戒指戴在食指上，感觉是比较有个人主张。最正式的戴法莫过于戴在中指上，如果不想有太正式的感觉，可以在左或右指再加一个简单的指环。无名指上的戒指通常是结婚戒指，无名指长得比较纤细，因此不管什么戒指，戴起来都是标准的秀气。最新鲜的戴法，莫过于把戒指戴在小指头上了。一枚小小的、简单的尾戒，让女性的手莫名其妙地可爱起来，一般代表“我现在只想单身，请不要浪费时间追求我”的意思. 
戴设计性比较强的戒指时，如果想更有个人风格，可以考虑搭配另一个材质相同、线条较简单的指环在另一指上。如果戒指的材质属性可以和手表搭配，那是最好不过的了。例如你戴的是枚可爱的花戒指，就可以配一只皮质金框的表。如果你并没有太多可以变换的表或戒指时，不妨考虑把戴戒指的手和戴手表的手错开，不要让不协调的两件配饰在同一只手上出现。

在同一只手上戴两枚戒指时，色泽要一致，而且一枚戒指复杂时，另一枚一定要简单。此外，最好选择相邻的两只手指，如中指和食指、中指和无名指或无名指和小指，千万不要中间隔着一座“山”。 

比较通用的一种说法是： 

戴在拇指上表示追（有行动的对对方的追求），戴在食指上表示求（仅限于内心对爱情的渴望），戴中指表示定（正处在恋爱中或已经订婚了），戴在无名指上表示结（已经结婚了），而戴在小指上就表示离（决定单身或离婚了）。 在国外，不戴戒指也表示“名花还无主，你可以追我”。

戒指泄露的心底故事 

戒指不仅仅是装饰品，你喜欢戴哪一类戒指，喜欢戴哪根手指，都会泄露你的心底故事。 

对男士来说——

．戴纯银戒指表示性情温和，易迁就他人。

．戴金戒指者较重视利益，往往会有精明的生意头脑。 
．戴翡翠玉石者注重品味素质，处事严谨。 

对女士来说—— 
．喜爱粉红钻或粉红色珊瑚者，感情丰富而浪漫。 
．喜爱红宝石或红碧玺者，热情似火。 
．喜爱蓝宝石或海蓝宝者．较内向冷淡。 
．喜爱祖母绿或土耳其石者，情感纤弱。 

手指与戒指—— 
戒指戴在不同的手指上，能体现与性格有关的心理含义。 
．喜戴在食指者，性格较偏激倔强。 
．喜戴在右中指者．崇尚中庸的人生观念。 
．喜戴在左中指者，有责任感，重视家庭。

．喜戴在小手指者，有自卑感。

END OF SEMESTER

2011-06-26T14:29:00.001+10:00

It finally comes to an end. End of the 1st semester of 3rd year. End of assignments yet panicking on the other hand of the results which should be released around two weeks later.

Watched KungFu Panda 2 that day with my friend. It is really a nice and funny movie to watch. Anyone who hasn't watched this movie yet, give it a try!!! You will like it!!!

Recently other than busy with the part-time job, nothing much to do. I spend almost all my time in my little room other than work, playing the online games I downloaded. Yea, I'm a game freak! Not to say that I played all the games, but I tried a little bit here and there for some games, mostly MMORPG online games. I downloaded "The Sims Medieval" last night and now is trying to install it. Though, it takes so long to actually extract the whole file! Hope it is worth the wait.

Well, got to go back to my online game. Update you guys again when I feel to. XD

离我越远越好

2011-05-23T01:30:00.004+10:00

我曾经喜欢过你，曾经爱上过你，我们分手了。

我曾经尝试着和你变成朋友，曾经和你吵过无数大大小小的架。

那许多曾经的曾经，再也不会发生了！

你无理取闹（我总以为“无理取闹”是女生的专利，没想到你比女生严重）

你少爷脾气（这个我懂！也许从小到大，身边的人都顺着你的意吧？）

你脾气暴躁（一丁点的芝麻小事你都可以发脾气，对我大喊大叫）

你不守承诺（这一点大部分的男生都做不到，我不怪你）

你嫉妒心强（我有我的自由，和谁交朋友你管不着，也不管你事）

你心里不平衡（你到底懂不懂分手是什么意思？还要管那么多干吗？）

你“狗眼看人低”（样样都要贵的你才吃，好的你才用，还嫌我不懂吃好的 [囧]）

你占有欲强（分手后还问我为什么喜欢另外一个人？是你提分手的好不好？还怪我？）

你说你很想了解我，说我为什么那么难懂？

看来难了解的那个人是你自己吧？

从来就没有人说过我很难懂，你还真的是第一个！

你说我对你说话很不温柔（你去问问我的朋友们，我几时说话会很温柔？）

你说你希望我像以前那样对你轻声细语（拜托！我不是你女朋友了！）

你说我为什么男性朋友那么多（因为我其实并不是一个难相处的人，除了对你来说！）

你还过分到出去时对我毛手毛脚（还口口声声说把我当朋友，那是朋友该做的吗？）

我已经忍无可忍了！

不要再问我为什么那么难懂！（我做人是简单的可以！）

不要问我为什么对你说话粗声粗气！（我对朋友本来就是那个样子！）

不要再假情假意想要跟我和好！（你一点机会希望都没有！）

我从来没有忍一个人可以忍那么久，也从来不会讨厌人！

我现在可以很肯定地告诉你，我对你真的是有够反感的！

最后！不要再找我！你如果再出现，我不会像之前那么客气了！！！

MIXED FEELING

2011-05-03T00:50:00.002+10:00

Recently is up to an online game... well to be frank, it's nothing special than the other online games I played before, but...it's extremely few people playing this online game AND this really catches my attention to play... :P Wanna know what's the game? Nah... I'm not going to tell you!!! I just want to keep it as few people as it can be to enjoy this game...SORRY!!!

Above is not what I really want to talk about for this post... and it starts now...

I've been thinking hard lately about us. Wondering what happened to you? You are treating me distantly... don't you feel that way? Mixed feeling is really torturing me, I can't ask for a clear answer from you, and neither can I find out from anyone else but YOU. I feel lost, lost in the way that I'd never felt before, lost in the sense that I can hardly gain back my faith in believing what you told me earlier. Can I? No, I can't. I'm losing my vitality to think of all those questions without answers. I'm exhausted, in the love on just one side, with another side of uncertainty, I rather let go in this point.

Maybe, I've been expecting too much from you. Maybe, I need you more than I thought. However, I know that I'll be happy enough for a few days on just getting a how-are-you. No one have ever made me feel such helpless before. I think you'll be the biggest challenge ever either for me to fight for or let go!!!

All I want to know from you is just

THE SIMPLEST QUESTION YET THE HARDEST QUESTION TO ANSWER...

HAVE YOU EVER FALLEN IN LOVE WITH ME?

曾经。最近

2011-04-27T21:56:00.003+10:00

很久以后的今天，我又开始听些华语歌了

还记得A-LIN的“分手是需要练习的”这首歌吗？

那是我们在饭店房间里，我听着这首歌，你在后面淡淡的和我说这首歌很好听的

虽然你不明白里面的意思，但是你感觉到音乐是带点伤感的

分手需要練習的

談起關於你的話題終於可以不用缺席

甚至還表現得不再關心從前你是傷的痕跡

現在不過是場回憶忽遠忽近

我怕的是低潮來襲這城市哪裡夠隱密

藏住我突然想哭的情緒寧願失去鬥志勇氣

好過和你冷戰推擠這樣誰輸得起

原來分手是需要練習的等時間久了會變勇敢的

你慢慢出走我漸漸放手這不就是我們要的自由

原來分手是需要練習的等傷口好了會變輕鬆的

海闊天空不殘留一點痛

回頭看怕懦弱往前走怕墜落

但我一定能學會在想你的時候不難過

我怕的是低潮來襲這城市哪裡夠隱密

藏住我突然想哭的情緒寧願失去鬥志勇氣

好過和你冷戰推擠這樣誰輸得起

原來分手是需要練習的等時間久了會變勇敢的

你慢慢出走我漸漸放手這不就是我們要的自由

原來分手是需要練習的等傷口好了會變輕鬆的

海闊天空不殘留一點痛

回頭看怕懦弱往前走怕墜落

但我一定能學會在想你的時候不難過

原來分手是需要練習的等傷口好了會變輕鬆的

海闊天空不殘留一點痛

回頭看怕懦弱往前走怕墜落

但我一定能學會在想你的時候不難過

另外一首让我想起你的歌，一定就是丁当的“我是一只小小鸟”了

还记得那次在你的车上听着这首歌的时候，你告诉我

说你曾在一间酒吧里听到一个女生唱这首歌，唱得很好听

那之后你最很喜欢这首歌

所以在你说了这番话之后，我开始偷偷学唱这首歌

也许不会唱得比那个女生好听，可是至少我尝试过

我是一只小小鸟

有时候我觉得自己像一只小小鸟
想要飞却怎么样也飞不高
也许有一天我栖上了枝头却成为猎人的目标
我飞上了青天才发现自己从此无依无靠
每次到了夜深人静的时候我总是睡不着
我怀疑是不是只有我的明天没有变得更好
未来会怎样究竟有谁会知道
幸福是否只是一种传说我永远都找不到
我是一只小小小小鸟
想要飞呀飞却飞也飞不高
我寻寻觅觅寻寻觅觅一个温暖的怀抱
这样的要求算不算太高
我是一只小小小小鸟
想要飞呀飞却飞也飞不高
我寻寻觅觅寻寻觅觅一个温暖的怀抱
这样的要求算不算太高

所有知道我的名字的人呐
你们好不好世界时如此的小
我们注定无处可逃当我尝尽人情冷暖
当你决定为了你的理想燃烧
生活的压力与生命的尊严哪一个重要
我是一只小小小小鸟
想要飞呀飞却飞也飞不高
我寻寻觅觅寻寻觅觅一个温暖的怀抱
这样的要求算不算太高
我是一只小小小小鸟
想要飞呀飞却飞也飞不高
我寻寻觅觅寻寻觅觅一个温暖的怀抱
这样的要求算不算太高

最近觉得你变得很冷淡了，是为什么？

而且，我对你的思念越来越少，想念另一个他的时间越来越长

可是，想到你的冷漠，心依然会痛

曾经，我们打打闹闹，有说有笑，那是多么自然的感觉

FAST FIVE

2011-04-25T23:39:00.001+10:00

This is a must-watch movie...

FAST & FURIOUS 5

And I personally love HAN (Sung Kang) the most!!! I don't know why but he just caught my eyes in all F&F movies... He is just too cool!!! I recently run through his personal details... Can you believe that he is now 39? He totally doesn't look like one!!! OMG!!!

AUCKLAND TRIP

2011-04-24T18:57:00.003+10:00

The very 1st day in Auckland, I was actually to be very excited about the trip. It is my 1st time to be in Auckland, although I'd been to South island (Christchurch to Queenstown) last year. It is a big city with tall buildings and shops everywhere, a bit like Christchurch but nothing like Queenstown. I can say that it is definitely a city with food, a lot of variety of food. Walked around the city after a few hours of nap in the hotel, it was really enjoying.

The 2nd day, I was having the same activities as yesterday. Shopped around and not to forget, hunting for food all around the city.

The weather was getting worse when we had our very 1st day field trip with Andrew Wilson, our course coordinator for this semester. It rained the whole day, continuously for the whole afternoon. We cannot really follow the actual plan that he set, so he changed the plan, taking a ferry to the Devonport, walked all the way up to a hill and lookout to the entire town of Devonport. It was really a nice view, just which we all gave up on the umbrellas as the wind was too strong and the umbrellas were useless at all. We took some pictures along and dismissed around 5pm. Walked all the way back to our hotel, had a comfortable washed up, rested for a while and it was dinnertime. After the dinner, we slept in no time…exhausted.

We continued our field trip for 3 days. To be honest, the weather in Auckland is unpredictable. It can rain for few minutes, stop for few minutes, and continued to rain the whole day. Wind is another major issue, which basically made the umbrella useless.

After a 4-day visit to places around Auckland, we were off for another 2 days before heading back to Brisbane. So, we went to Silvia Park by train, a shopping mall which is not to say large but is enough for you to get what you want. However, we didn't buy anything from there.

The next day, we took a bus to New Market. There were shops all around that area, especially boutiques! I was trying out for CROCS, but they were out of my size. It was a good thing that I didn’t need to spend another NZD$70+ on that particular pair of shoes that I wanted to buy.

Seriously nothing much to talk about Auckland. As what I know, the food is nice, weather is weird, the School of Architecture in University of Auckland is better than the one in University of Queensland (no offence)… And there are places good for girls that love shopping!!! The whole journey for me other than the "adventures" given by my lecture, is ALL ABOUT EAT & DRINK!!!

*** Feel free to have a peek on my Facebook photos under the folder "Auckalnd Trip" to see what I had in Auckland. ^^

PERFUME

2011-04-14T01:24:00.002+10:00

Recently kind of fall for trying different types of perfume!

Currently using some that I really like (more to fruity & soft appealing fragrances...)

1. Acqua Di Gioia

Got caught by the sales girl when I was waiting for my friend at Myer. She was promoting this perfume so hard that I can't reject her. Therefore, I bought it with a free gift and she was kind enough to give me some other perfume samples. Anyway, I'm happy because I like it.

2. Ralph Lauren

I received it as a gift from my friends on my 23rd birthday in Brisbane. I like it so much. Hereby, I want to thank them for remembering my birthday! Muacks...^^

3. DKNY Red Delicious

This was also a present from my friend. Actually I prefer the green one. However, this one isn't bad after all. I think most of the girls will like it as well. Why don't give it a try?

4. CK In2U

Bought it from a pharmacy store when I was walking pass the shop and spotted the word "SALE" on all the perfumes. Girls just can't resist things on SALE. Don't you agree? Went through a lot of the perfumes and finally decided to buy this.

5. Burberry Brit

I got this on the same day as I got the CK In2U. And you know what? Out of so many perfumes, I love this the MOST! It is really a soft, sweet & nice fragrance to wear! Even one of my MALE friend used it...^^

你知道吗？

2011-03-02T12:24:00.004+10:00

在飞机起飞的那一刻，拉远的不只是我们的距离，我们彼此的心也跟着被拉远。

因为通话费的问题，我们不能很常联络，加上还没安装好的网络，我们的距离也跟着越来越远了。

你知道吗？回来以后的每一天，我都会想起你。你呢？是否也和我一样？

我喜欢你的笑，它很特别，和别人的笑不一样，是独一无二的。

你知道吗？你给了我很多的回忆，是甜蜜的、窝心的，就算现实离我们很远。

我喜欢你的拥抱，它绝对是温暖的，能给与我的安全感永不欠缺。

你知道吗？我过了无数个没有网络的日子，没有你的讯息，只会让我更难熬。

我喜欢你的声音，你总会说些无聊又无厘头的话，却能逗我笑。

我发觉，除了电话里，你那张小得可怜的照片，我们没有半张单独的合照。

你知道吗？我打着这封部落格的时候，是听着哪一首歌吗？

戴爱玲和杨培安的‘只要再看你一眼’

我真的很希望，我们能像歌词里写的那样，‘你的未来有我陪，不浪费’

爱上双子

2011-02-15T22:53:00.004+10:00

爱上双子的人，说不累是假的，一半是因为爱的太深，以至忽略了追求过程中的慌张疲惫；另一半是因为用太多的精力去稳定双子那颗难以安定下来的心，所以没有多余的时间去考虑累不累这个问题。爱上双子，就像是在不安的世界找安稳，以为已成定局，却又在下一秒发现根本没有抓紧这份感情。所以不断的来回追逐，三番五次的确定真心，直到彼此的心紧紧相靠，不再分开。

这正是我现在的心情，太准了！也许现在最重要的，还是把自己的课业搞好，再去想些有的没有的吧！一切随缘！！！

** 谢谢你们这两个好朋友好哥哥，陪了我一整晚，还要面对我那张丑死的哭相，真是太不好意思了！

IT HURTS

2011-02-10T00:29:00.000+10:00

It's been a while since the last post of my blog...
Well, it's almost half way through Chinese New Year and there's nothing special to be noted...

Other than visiting friends and relatives, gambling, drinking, singing & dancing will be the major activities throughout the whole Chinese New Year... Yet to remind me that, I'm 24 this year! Not to say really mature, but it's time for me to really settle down and think more!

Friends are still the same, funny, friendly & crappy! Last year, I was the one got addicted on Rummy. Turned out this year happened to be Dolly! Met some new friends during this short time of period, they're all nice!

There's something that I want to note down in this post, as I don't know when will be the next time I update my news again...
" Checked my Facebook few days ago and I found out he had changed the relationship status into 'single', without notifying me! At first I was pissed, and then I felt hurt. Feeling that he was so disrespectful. When I asked him about that, he told me 'I changed it long time ago...I wanted you to find out yourself...' After some arguments, he claimed that he wanted to change the status back to 'In a relationship...' However, I refused and stopped this conversation by telling him that 'Leave it there, let it be...' For me, it was just meaningless to change the relationship again & again when nothing was true & real... The next day, he was still the same. This incident didn't seem to bother him too much... Therefore, what I can do is to save it as a dream, a short but sweet dream... Now, it hurts more than I thought it would be! Yet I believe that I will be better...in time... "

猜不透

2011-01-19T22:02:00.000+10:00

是因为你真的人太好，还是你真正有想起我，才传简讯给我呢？

是因为我的撒娇，让你觉得内疚，所以才会主动传简讯给我？

其实，每晚收到你的短讯，我是开心的，却同时地感到疑惑，究竟你是因为想念我而发简讯，还是纯粹的心肠好，想要满足我对你的撒娇？

一再问自己同样的问题，其实除了你，没有人能知道答案~

很想进一步了解你，想更靠近你，可是你就是那么得让人摸不清，猜不透~

戒指的意思

2010-12-27T18:35:00.001+10:00

送戒指的意思是什么？

只是纯粹因为知道我喜欢戒指？

还是另有含义？

很想知道，却没勇气找寻答案...

2010圣诞

2010-12-26T23:58:00.005+10:00

今年的圣诞，不是最特别的，却是最温馨的一次

一个礼拜多前就买了机票的我，心情是复杂得难以形容

除了是要见他以外，就是去和很久不见的好朋友聚一聚

他定了酒店，虽然没有安排其它特别的节目，对我来说就已经足够

24号的那个晚上，在一间西餐厅吃了圣诞套餐，就往戏院去

看了一部很有创意的电影 “TRON LEGACY”，却不很理想，也许太多的解释吧！

他没有任何的亲密举动，却只爱不定时地拨弄我的头发，按按我的颈项

25号晚上约了朋友去唱K，过后跑到对面的夜店继续狂欢跳舞

也许喝得太快，我吐了整晚，在夜店里的时候只顾尽情跳个痛快，顺道闪酒

就算知道隔天是最早的那班机，却还是玩到2点多才散会

看上去我们并不像情侣，事实上也是一个介于朋友与情侣之间没有确定答案的关系

他会很细心的，总是要确定我有没有吃饱，却不会逼着我吃多

他会像小孩般撒娇，就是要我能够顺他的意，其实是希望我开心
最后，还送了我一枚不明含义的戒指，搞得我更不知所措

好几次了我都想冲动的去问他关于我们这段不确定的情感

却往往话到嘴边又吞回去，总是怕尴尬，怕会有不好的事情发生

我真的很无奈，很犹豫，很混乱！

是你

2010-12-07T01:47:00.000+10:00

如果可以从新选择，我真的很希望我没有遇见过你，没有爱过你。

是你，让我觉得很有安全感，在你怀里，我永远都觉得很温暖，永远都觉得很安心。
是你，在我遇到课业上的问题的时候，努力的帮助我，让我度过一次又一次的难关。
是你，让我明白人一定要向前看，一定要设定自己的目标，然后努力去达成目标。
是你，让我爱上你，在一起了，却又人间蒸发，消失在我们的爱情里，音讯全无。
是你，让我想放弃，却在我快要忘记你的时候，又突然出现，给了我希望又剥夺它。
是你，答应过我的东西永远都做不到，一次又一次的欺骗我，一次又一次的伤害我。

我其实很谢谢你，给了我那么多，却到头来，也是你，让我失望透顶。

我无从选择，很想讨厌你，很想放下对你的情感，可是我真的很挣扎！为什么你会让我那么的犹豫不决，那么的纠缠不清，那么的优柔果断！

我过关了

2010-12-05T20:19:00.000+10:00

成绩在几天前就公布了，我担心了那么久，我过关了，终于可以松一口气了！

现在人在吉隆坡，可是却没事做，闷死了！本来约好了一班朋友的，却临时有事取消了，也不知道能不能够有时间再约！今天是星期日，却整天都留在家里没有出去，真的快闷死了！没有车用的日子真的很不好过，不方便，哪里都去不了！

朋友本来说今天下午会找我的，却因为家里没人，要负责照顾他年迈的外婆而没办法赴约！看来这回我真的买错机票了，应该早一点回老家的！

加油加油！

2010-11-08T01:01:00.001+10:00

现在已经是12.48AM了，却还是一点睡意也没有。昨天晚上睡觉的时候也已经是一点多，今天早上起来的时候太阳其实很刺眼，还以为已经快中午了，谁知道查了查电话，才发现是6AM！以为自己的手机时间有问题，抓了另一台电话再查一查，一样是6AM！我的妈呀！我才睡了不到5个钟头！！！很努力的在床上翻滚了快半个小时，希望自己能够再入睡，我失败了！很不愿意的爬起身来梳洗一番，坐在电脑前面没事干！这里按按，那里按按，到了将近11点多，终于开始困了，又在爬回床上睡去~
再次醒来的时候已经快1PM了！再次坐回电脑前面，朋友约了出去喝茶，我很爽快地就答应了！想到上几个礼拜连续赶着功课都没有轻松过，想想明天的考试也就算了，没有什么心情温习，换了个装，就出门去！朋友和我说了一个我很不愿意知道的消息，她要搬到另一个地方和她的男友一起生活！看来明年回来的时候，我就又少了一个可以一起玩疯的朋友了~叹息呀！
过了明天的考试，我就真的可以放松了，不要去想成绩！反正在怎样担心也改变不了结果，只要自己尽力了就好，至少对得起自己！加油吧！“贱”-NET，你可以的！

单身又怎样？

2010-10-02T02:57:00.001+10:00

很多人都很好奇，为什么我到现在还是单身？都快7-8个月的时间了，还是单身？尤其是身边比较熟的朋友，问了又问。其实我知道为什么他们会好奇，因为我从不缺爱情，至少他们认识的那个以前的我是这样！想知道为什么？其实答案很简单：

1 - 一直追求自由不爱被控制、讨厌约束的自己，暂时觉得单身生活比较愉快，并不想寄托于任何的感情牵挂和困扰
2 - 自己喜欢的对象并没有明确表态对我的情感，不想自己先会错意，所以也就变得无声无息；喜欢我的对象却是郎有情妹无意，叫我怎么接受？
3 - 就算是恋爱了，也只会是痛苦的远距离爱情，除了思念的折磨，就是无依无靠的寂寞，还要担心对方的不忠、自己可能会变的情感，那还不如单身的好？

我其实一点都没变，还是以前那个爱玩就玩，做尽傻事让人家笑话也不会觉得羞耻的那个我！唯独对于感情，我不得不变。心已经疲惫了，伤痕累累的，怎么治疗都不会复原，至少已经不是一颗完完整整的心了！有好几次，想要不顾一切的豁出去，却被心里那微弱的声音给止住了，不停的呐喊 “ 不要做傻事，最后又要受伤的 ”，所以还没行动，我就胆怯了、退缩了！

现在寻找的爱情，再不是什么轰轰烈烈、惊喜连连、浪漫不断的爱情。希望的只是踏踏实实、坚韧不变的爱情，寻求的也只是一个可以给于安全感的终生依靠。

23rd B'DAY

2010-09-28T20:32:00.002+10:00

26th September 2010

Woke up around noon, called my friend to accompany me to do some preparations for the night coming little birthday party! Nothing much to prepare tho, just for the drinks and the cake. My friends reserved a 10" strawberry cake, it was really nice and delicious. Unluckily, she bought the wrong candles with the number of 22 instead of 23! LOL. Correct information on the chocolate plate but wrong for the candle. Nah~ Whatever! Who cares?

The wordings on the chocolate plate? 贱-NET 23 生日快乐 > Jeanette 23rd Happy Birthday!

* The meaning of 贱? Find it out yourself!

We had lots of fun in my friend's house (as I organised my party at her place, more convenient and it's at least a private unit). One of my friend wasn't feeling quite well due to her food poisoning (take care and rest well yo!). We drank, we talked, we played dices. However, I was too tired and was already home before 11pm! Took a shower and prepared to sleep!

27th September 2010

Worked in the morning, and after work, I went to buy some Halloween stuffs for the Klub Kandy Halloween party. What had I bought? Devil Hair-band! Danced all night long till everyone was so sweaty!!! The place was so so crowded! I spotted bunnies, Marios, princesses, Pikachu, etc...

** Thank you all of you guys to celebrate my birthday with me and also all the wishes that I received! Love you guys so much!

WAITING

2010-09-10T14:11:00.000+10:00

Sitting alone at the library, waiting for my friend's call. He was supposed to accompany me on a visit to my proposed site to take some photos, but I was late due to the wait for my turn on the tutorial just now. Nothing much to talk about my design with the tutor just now, because my drawings were just random without any fixed dimensions. Slightly talked bout my ideas on the bridge, the tutor didn't seem to have much problem with it, so I guess I'm alright! HAPPY! Next thing I'm gonna do is to focus on the model building tomorrow. Then the rest of next week is to fix my design problem.

Boring! Still waiting for the call and my phone seems to lie on the table silently. Sigh~ What the hell is he doing and when is he going to call me? Nah~ After all it's still my fault, I made him waiting just now and now's my turn to wait. T.T

It was drizzling outside. Had a 6-inch Subway with a cup of white hot chocolate. I'm half-full. Planning to have another meal after my site analysis is done! And he is definitely owing me a cup of milk tea. "Ladies' every-month-problem"? Who cares! I never stop in taking cold things since I was born! LOL! Without milk tea, there's like something missing in my life! Overstating? Not at all! I'm serious! Milk tea, I love YOU!

LATEST UPDATE

2010-09-05T19:40:00.000+10:00

It was about a month ago since my last post. Being so lazy to update my "latest news" because nothing was really special, other then I had bruises on my knees because of my slip during work weeks ago. It was really painful and yet the bruises are still not totally cleared yet!

It's Spring now. Not to say it's hot, but warm... Raining almost everyday since Spring, I like it rains when I'm sleeping, but not when I'm hanging out! God!!!

The place where I work have moved to next door! On the 1st day of opening, it was terribly crowded and busy. Kitchen staffs weren't able to cope with the new environment and there was some system problem going on that time. Fast orders but slow in serving. The situation was really terrifying. I was the one issued to be "consultant" dealing with customers' inquiries of the day. I was really stressed out when most of the customers left with fierce and unsatisfying faces! However, I tried my best to do my job with polite greetings to all of them. What a tough day!!!

2nd day of the opening, I had night shift and it was Annual River Festival of Brisbane! No fireworks for me, no jets performance for me! >< Undeniably, there was going to be flows and flows of people coming in for food after the fest! Problems occurred: malfunction of exhaust fan in the kitchen, electrical breakdown...etc! Get the problems fixed after half an hour and continued the flow! What a NIGHT! Finished my work around 10.30pm, grabbed my Subway and went home! I was exhausted!

1ST ACUPUNCTURE

2010-07-14T14:42:00.000+10:00

Being kinda lazy recently, so I hardly update my blog page. I'm so sorry about that.

I had a 5-day New Zealand trip but I had only updated for a 2-day blog. I'm so sorry. I'm just too lazy to update the rest of my journey. In short, everything in NZ is a nature mystery! It is a country with nice sceneries that you'll never forget! And you'll definitely want to be there again! That's the conclusion for my trip to NZ!!!

** PS: For my NZ trip's photos as what I had mentioned in my previous posts... Please feel free to have a peek through my Facebook! ^^

Now for my latest update...

Yesterday wasn't a very good day for me. Woke up in the morning and I realized something wasn't right on my right ankle. 1st step out of my bed, it hurt! I didn't really care about the ache and straight to work. Stood for hours during my working time running in and out of the kitchen as usual to clear up the tables. And the ankle was really my killing point. I can't stand anymore. Talked to my manager about the problem and as well it was the time for my shift off! Text my friend about my inconvenient of going for the 7.30pm BodyJam class and I got her reply as "Come on! I bring you to the acupuncture!" Well, it wasn't a bad thing to try out! I followed her to a massage centre in a plaza. It was a male therapist to serve us and he is my friend's good friend. Got to believe him anyway!

He checked on my ankle and found nothing. No swell, no bruise, NOTHING! However, when he put on pressure on my ankle! It hurt! Really hurt! He started his acupuncture skill on my ankle with 5 needles in different so-called "acupoints". It wasn't hurt after all as what I'd been told "acupuncture is really hurt"... Laid there for about half an hour and done! After that, he massaged my ankle.

It was actually still hurt last night for my right ankle. However, I'm feeling much better today. At least it is not as hurt as yesterday!

NZ TRIP DAY 2

2010-07-08T12:43:00.002+10:00

Woke up early in the morning at around 5.20am, got ready as quickly as possible to catch a bus to Milford Sound for a cruise ride out to the shore. It was a one day trip. The whole journey took about 5 hours. It was really an exhausting trip. We did stop by some of the places along the journey to take some wonderful pictures. There was an open space of greenery covered with snow. Then, there was a place called Mirror Lakes which the surface of the lake reflected the scenery around it just like a mirror! It was really amazing!

I slept half way through the journey. I was really really tired. Finally we reached Milford Sound, boarded the cruise and started another journey out to the shore. Mountains and waterfalls were all surrounding the place. It was really a stunning scenery with some living things like seals and dolphins, too! However, it was really a cold day. The cold breeze from the sea really frozen my fingers. Tried so hard to cover all my exposed parts into my jacket to avoid the direct contact with the external freezing weather!

After a 2 hours ride, we headed back to Milford Sound port and took the bus home. On the way back, I vomited few times. That was really torturing. However, I really enjoyed the trip a lot! You got to see something new and discovered something you'd never known!

** More pictures available in my Facebook (Jeanette Pang : jamie_pty@hotmail.com)

NZ TRIP DAY 1

2010-07-07T18:46:00.000+10:00

Got on a bus to the nearest train station in Toowong to catch a train to the central station. Met up with my other friends at the station and headed to the Brisbane International Terminal around 4.30pm to catch the 1830 flight. Failed to check in because we didn't bring along our student visa for verification and we had to go online to download our E-visa as a proof to get checked in for the flight to New Zealand. Finally, we were done with the check in and got in the plane for a 3.5 hours flight to Christchurch. By the time we reached Christchurch, it was already 12am. Rented a car at the airport and had a cup of coffee before we started our journey way down to Queenstown. The weather is freezing cold by the time we stepped out of the terminal! Quickly, we took our very 1st picture outside the terminal and rushed to the car in no time.

It was really a very long ride to Queenstown. It took about 8 hours to reach Queenstown. Checked in to Alpine Village. The place was really awesome! The scenery was incredibly stunning! Most of the place was covered with thin snow and this was the very 1st time for me to get so close with SNOW! Everyone was so tired and exhausted after the long ride from Christchurch. After bath, we slept for about 2 hours and started our visit around the town.

1st, we went to the Skyline Gondola in Queenstown. Had our photo shooting session and of course the Luge! It was really fun! We saw people playing bungee, it was really terrifying! Had our late lunch at the cafe up at the mountain and headed down to the town to grabbed some ingredients which we planned to have steamboat at our resort! After that, we were all off to bed in no time!

** More photos to be viewed in my Facebook (Jeanette Pang : jamie_pty@hotmail.com)

THE ROAD

2010-06-17T21:55:00.001+10:00

Something happened this morning when I was on my way to work at the city...

Guess what I saw???

A big hole in the middle of the road at the city... I wondered what happened? Slight earthquake? Bad road condition? Stopped for a few seconds to take some picture and rushed to work...

And then... this was what happened after I was on my way home...

Efficient enough? XD

BODYJAM & STEAMBOAT

2010-06-12T12:56:00.001+10:00

Had a really great day yesterday...

Afternoon, went for groceries shopping with a friend, bought some ingredients for the steamboat session we planned to have at night... Before that, we had our late lunch of take-away McDonald's meals and coffee time at Zaraffa's. The mousse cake she ordered was nice but my chocolate muffin was way too hard -- just like a stone! After the late lunch, she accompanied me to Fitness First, requesting a free trial for the BodyJam class at 6.30pm. I got a 1-day free pass for the class. Was so excited about the class!

Went home around 5pm to start the preparation of the steamboat. And then, we went back the the gym around 5.45pm. Had some little workout with the equipments available at the center before the class started at 6.30pm. The BodyJam class was just great. I enjoyed my time in that class. An hour session is not too long, but it was more than enough for you to get sweaty! It has been a really long time since the last time I exercised!

Got back for the steamboat around 7.45pm, we had our dinner in no time. Everyone was hungry! It was really a wonderful dinner with all the friends sitting on the floor in front of the TV having a herbal based soup steamboat with lots of different ingredients and sauces! Yum yum~~~ Finished our dinner, took some rest and prepared for shower at my friend's place before the Rummy session again! Hahahaha~ Didn't really win a lot but I had a lot of fun playing it whilst the guys were busy with their WorldCup!

FOR YOU & ONLY YOU

2010-06-08T23:26:00.002+10:00

我记得你和我说过, 我的部落格里, 记载的都是其他人的事, 很少有关于你的...
其实不竟然, 因为, 关于你的, 我大部分都用华语打的, 而你却不懂得看华语...

这一篇, 就是完完全全属于你的... 为你打的, 一样的是用华语, 你永远都读不到...
就因为知道你不会华语, 而叙述的情感对我来说, 用华语比较能够表达...
我选择这一切永远是个秘密... 别人会明白, 会知道, 而你永远都不会明白, 也不会知道...

认识你, 是三年前的事吧? 我还记得, 我是通过一个交友网站寻求课业上的问题时遇见了你...
你帮我解答了我的课业问题, 却因为某一部分功课的难题, 我们最终约出来见面讨论了...
我真的很谢谢你, 你不但很有礼貌, 还帮了我很大的忙, 解决了我的功课, 还教会我很多东西...
慢慢的, 我们开始聊天, 那时候的你, 除了工作, 还要进修硕士, 半工半读 (这是我很欣赏你的其中一点), 觉得你很有上进心...
你真的真的很忙, 你很少会有机会上线, 更不用说是出来见面, 往往我遇到了难题, 都很难找到你...
可是, 日子久了, 我也就习惯了, 你会抽出那么一些些的时间, 和我上网聊天, 我真的很开心...

渐渐的, 我发觉, 自己喜欢上你了, 却又没有勇气告诉你, 因为, 我也即将毕业离开...
没有打算要跟你说什么的, 就这样, 我们一直是维持着朋友的关系, 远距离的保持联络着...
突然之间, 你失踪了, 消失在线上, 电话也联系不上你, 我很好奇, 不停地在寻找你的踪迹...
不知道过了多久, 你忽然又上线了, 第一句和我说的就是 "I miss you so much~ Can you be my girl?"...
我愣住了, 当下的我不知道如何回答, 我真的很喜欢很喜欢你, 却又有所顾虑 (因为我知道我不能忍受远距离的爱情, 我知道会很辛苦)...
过了几天, 你又再问同样的问题, 这一次, 我屈服了, 我答应了, 却在我答应了的隔一天, 你又再一次的消失了...
一个月后, 你出现了, 而我, 忍无可忍的, 痛骂了你一顿, 然后提出分手...
你什么话也没说, 静静的让我骂了很久很久, 就连挽留也没有的答应了分手, 最后只是跟我说 "I love you, I really do..."

我哭了, 不是因为你的不挽留, 而是因为我的冲动和不谅解...

不久后的某一天, 你跟我说了你消失的原因, 我才恍然大悟...
后悔, 我真的后悔了, 却不知道如何是好, 你不敢提出复合, 而我也胆怯了...
我们就这样一直保持着朋友的关系, 在线上维持联系, 互相嘘寒问暖...

直到我要去澳洲读书的那一天, 我们都没有机会再见面...
一样的, 我们还是在网上聊天, 很意外的, 你又提出了在一起的要求...
而这一次, 我们的约定是 - In a relationship without commitment...
简单来说, 就是只要其中一方找到适合的对象, 另外一方就得放手... 而我, 在不久的后来, 找到了, 而你不得不放手...

那一段澳洲的恋情, 很短很短, 伤的我很痛很痛... 也把你给气坏了, 原因只有一个, 那个男的很烂, 而我却一直傻傻的在维护他...
就这样, 半年后, 我和他分手了, 刚好放暑假的时候让我可以疗疗伤...
今年年头, 开学的时候, 你就自告奋勇地说要到机场接我, 陪我度过那八个小时的空档转机时间, 我很快就答应了... 那是我们两年后的再次相聚, 虽然时间很短, 我却很开心...
就这样, 你送我离开了马来西亚... 回到澳洲...

一直到前一天, 你忽然问我奇怪的问题 "Can you be my girl? I really love you..."
这一次, 我犹豫了, 没有回答你的问题, 我再一次的胆怯了, 我在逃避...
是为什么? 你问我爱不爱你的时候, 我没有办法回答, 真的没有办法.
明明好好的一段友谊, 为什么要去破坏它? 我不懂! 我不敢尝试再一次的接受, 因为我害怕再一次的失去...
最后, 我想告诉你... I just can't bear with the risk...again... I'm sorry!

SWAROVSKI

2010-06-04T15:17:00.000+10:00

Met my friend just now at Toowong after my groceries shopping... Was actually planning to cook a soup for dinner tonight... Ended up she told me that there's a SALE going on at Swarovski~! One of my favourite! I'm so not gonna miss this! Rushed home immediately to put down all my groceries, I took a bus to the city in no time! There were so many customers in the shop. I walked around the shop and spotted something I really like! Some of the corners were in 50% SALE!!! How can I miss this? No way!!! I grabbed 2 items, tried on them and without any hesitation, I made my payment... No regrets! No regrets! It's just an excuse for my broken necklace few weeks ago~! LOL... SATISFACTION!!!

FUNNY

2010-05-19T14:47:00.003+10:00

港澳人才看得懂的英文
1 So many people die, never see you die.
甘多人死，唔見你死。
2 You teach me how to come out and walk in the future?
你教我以後點出嚟行?
3 If you have enough ginger, put your horse to me.
如果你夠姜既話就放馬過嚟。
4 "I saw a pork chop"
我見到件豬扒啊。
5 Are you road?
你係咪路啊？
6 What the water are you?
你係乜水啊？
7 Do you big me?
你大我啊？
8 Zebra chops people.
班馬劈友。
9 The king of the cutting girl.
界女王。
10 Cut my head and let you sit on it as a chair.
批我個頭俾你當凳坐。
11 Do you think me didn't arrive?
你當我無到？
12 You have seed, I will give you some colour to see, brothers, together up.
你有種，我會俾D顏色你睇，兄弟，同我一齊上！
13 Today I was very black son.
今日我好黑仔。
14 I am wearing grass.
我著緊草。
16 Two beat six.
二打六
17 Two five son.
二五仔
18 Piano piano green.
琴琴青
19 I give you some colour to see see.
我俾D顏色你睇睇！
20 Stupid stupid want to move .
蠢蠢欲動。
21 People mountain people sea .
人山人海。
22 How senior are you?
你算老幾?
23 What the ghost are you talk?
你講乜鬼?
24 I fear that you have teeth.
我驚你有牙！
25 Heart flower angry open.
心花怒放。
26 Fish skin
魚皮。
27 Monster of blowing water.
吹水怪。
18 Face green green
面青青。
29 You see road carefully
你小心睇路
30 You go to street carefully
你出街小心D。
31 Do the world
做世界。
32 Big tea rice
大茶飯。
33 American chinese not enough.
美中不足。
34 King eight egg.
王八蛋
35 High hand.
高手
36 DO YOU Old dot ME?
你老點我呀?
37 One old water
一舊水
38 I know your mouse.
我識你老鼠！
39 Measure water/Pound water.
磅水
40 A dragon service.
一條龍服務
41 Pump water.?
抽水
42 I blow chicken to beat your group of the guys.
我吹雞打你班友。
43 You jump building.
你跳樓啦。
44 You come back home and eat banana
你返屋企食蕉啦
45 I give you a hair.
我俾條毛你ar!
46 Collect skin
收皮
47 Collect father
收爹
48 You give me collect father.
你同我收爹！
49 Laugh die me.
笑死我。
50 You give me stop.
你同我企系度。
51 Eight woman
八婆
52 Eight woman,you are good!
八婆，你好o野!

STUPID ME

2010-05-18T16:07:00.000+10:00

Someone called me yesterday...The conversation was...
X: Hello, is this Jeanette?
Me: Yeah, and you are?
X: I'm calling to ask whether you're still available for part-time job...
Me: Oh, really? But I have a job already. And may I know where is this calling from?
X: This is from Myer Centre XXX house (can't really remember the name of his shop)...
Me: Erm...(actually I was so regret about my honesty, and planning to request for an interview)
X: Nevermind then, it's good to hear that you got a job. Bye~
Me: Oh, thanks...Bye~

ARGH~ Stupid me!!! Stupid me!!! I missed an opportunity to may-be getting a higher pay job!!!

Got a free sample yoghurt this morning while I was walking to work. It's yoghurt & grains with banana honey flavour! 1st impression, WEIRD!!! I put it in the fridge at my working place and started another busy working day. After my shift, I was still able to remember to bring it home (I'm kinda forgetful everytime)! Tasted a little bit of it, it was not bad~~~ It smelled like yoghurt, tasted exactly like banana with bites of grains, but I didn't get honey at all!

THINGS HAPPENED THIS WEEK

2010-05-13T17:08:00.003+10:00

It's quite some time since I posted the previous post. Recently I'm up to something... which I'm so addicted about it. Not because of the thing itself, but of the users of it! Hahaha... Wanna know what I'm up to? Here's the answer...>>> 《刀剑英雄》A Chinese online game which I'm recently playing and I can't miss a single day to not signing in to it! The website for this game is http://bw.my.changyou.com/! If you're interested to find out what it looks like, then you can just click on the link and start to download it... Then you're done! But firstly, like what I mentioned, I don't find the game itself interesting, but it's the users (players) of it!!! Duh~!

Let me update a little bit of myself in this blog. Wasn't really that busy this week...

Monday: Went to work as usual from 11.30am-3.00pm, ended up accompanying my friend to buy some groceries. And I spotted something which I love so much and hardly got the chance to really look at it closely... TULIPS!!! My favourite flowers!

My friend bought so many goods for her dinner. And I was almost late to my class in the evening because of my 'kindness' companied!

Tuesday: Another working day from 12.00pm-21.00pm! The very 1st night shift for me... Nothing much special, but I got the same shift as a very nice girl - Jocelyn... She is a very funny girl! And I was laughing and laughing all night long during the shift with her...

Wednesday: Had Kanji test in the evening Japanese tutorial class... And I got headache all night long... Yet I can't miss the chance to sign in to my precious game... Everyone in my guild was scolding and chasing me to rest, so... I was forced to offline... Took 2 tablets of NUROFEN and off to bed... T.T

Today: Nothing much special as well... The only thing which was making me kinda embarrassed just now during work...>>> I was calling out for a guy of his order (Steamed chicken with rice), what I said was "先生，你的鸡好了 (Sir, your chicken is ready)." And one of my colleagues stared at me and laughed so hard!!! Well, I know it sounded a bit weird with the term I was using... LOL

SUX

2010-05-08T22:44:00.000+10:00

Just got home from S's place. Having the curry laksa as dinner prepared by J and the BuBuChaCha from S, it really keeps me warm under this kind of temperature! Really feel thankful and pleasure to have friends like them around with good cooking skills. And of course, I need to pay back by helping them to cut all the onions! Reason for that, cause I will not cry when I cut onions and they do. Seriously, I want to experience the crying part for cutting onions!

It's getting colder and colder, I can hardly stand when the wind blows, it's freezing cold! G was the one to send me home... While walking home, he did tell me what happened to his sister (S) which I found that she had been acting kind of weird during the dinner just now. Well, in conclusion, I can only tell that there's always some officious people which like to care bout other's business, twist around the truth and try to make some trouble out of it... There's also some people who haggle over every ounce with others... Why will they like to care so much? If they are really that sincere to give unconditionally, then why will they bother about getting back rewards? And as well being a boyfriend that doesn't know how to stand out and defend for his own girl... SUX!!! Sigh... We just can never get rid of those vile characters!!!

IP MAN 2 & BUDDHA FEST

2010-05-03T16:02:00.002+10:00

Woke up around 9.30am yesterday, took a bath and ready to go out with my friends for breakfast! Took a bus with a friend to 8 miles plain and met with another friend there. Then he fetch us to a restaurant for some dim sum! Been there for few times, but this was the very 1st time I tried so many different kind of dim sum! Satisfied and nice! After that, we went for a movie in the same shopping mall... Ip Man 2 was what we watched!!!

Compared to Ip Man 1, I'll say that Ip Man 2 is better. The main character Donnie Yen is more humorous! I laughed all the way through the movie, but still touched by the story line... This is definitely a-movie-to-watch!

After the movie, we hung out at friends' unit and had our Rami!!! Around 7.15pm, I walked to Southbank for the Buddha Festival with one of my friends... We both stopped at the bridge for the fireworks! It was not a grand one, but definitely a nice one! Then, we continued our food hunting among the booths... They sold different kind of vegetarian food! The food was nice... Walked around the area for awhile, called up one of our friends to fetch us home!

And on the way home, we decided to have another Rami session... Therefore, we stopped by a friend's house and again...Rami!!! Until about 12am only then I reached my house with all the groceries I bought after the movie and a box of chocolate cheese cake by my friend, prepared to go to the bed... I was exhausted but had fun for the whole day!

PS: Thanks for the lovely chocolate cheese cake and also all of you guys for a lovely and wonderful Sunday!

FRIED RICE

2010-04-27T15:19:00.003+10:00

Was on the cam with him last night as well waiting for another HIM to come over! However, HE kept changing HIS time from last Wednesday to Monday 8.30pm to Monday 10pm! Wasn't feeling that happy with HIS hesitation on meeting up with me, I told HIM that I was tired and unable to meet HIM at 10pm. Then, I continued on chatting with him. He told me not to bother about HIM anymore as HIS attitude is just childish... He also told me that HE got no reason to angry at me, because HE was the one to let go at first, if HE feels angry, then he doesn't really understand what's the meaning of 'break up'! And if HE keeps on being like this, HE is just creating contradiction for HIMself! (Maybe he was right after all... It's time for me to let go and as well for HIM... I guess!)

Received his sms this morning, checked the time stamp on the message, it was 4.39am! OMG! He is always sleeping that late... Speechless & helpless! Replied his message and I went to work.

Went for work around 9am, today wasn't that busy after all because there were another 2 guys helping me for the table cleaning! However, I'm still tired... After a 4-hour shift, I went to the nearby Coles to get some groceries for my fried rice! Was unable to find the luncheon meat that I wanted to cook with my fried rice, ended up getting some chicken roll instead. Then, I grabbed a bag of Crunchy Salad as my vege for the fried rice because of my laziness on cutting carrots and all that! LOL!

And... Here's my outcome for my fried-rice-of-the-day! And it is to be stored for my following dinners!

Tasted a little bit just now, it was really not bad (as in my opinion)! XD

Then, I received his sms again... He is just so cute! He can always make me smile just by his sms... What a good friend I have!

* he - M, HE - L, he - B

故事分享

2010-04-26T23:05:00.002+10:00

刚搬进这个房子的那天，她整理完全部的东西，最后拿出一个非常精致的玻璃瓶，对他说道：“亲爱的，3个月内，你让我每哭一次，我就往里面加一滴水，代表我的眼泪。要是它满了，我就收拾我的东西离开这房子。”
　　男人不以为然，有点纳闷：“你们女人也太神经质了吧！就这么不信任我么，那还有什么可谈？我让你搬过来和我一起生活，是为了照顾你，不是欺负你的！”
　　女人说：“好男人不会让心爱的女人受一点点伤，我会记录下我为什么流泪，不会是莫名其妙的。”

“那好吧，抱抱～！”
　　两个月后，女人把那瓶子给男人看，说：“已经满一半了，在两个月内，我们是否有必要查看一下是什么问题呢？”说完递了一本精致的小笔记本给男人。
　　男人没有马上打开来看，他的表情里有一丝惊讶，还有点哭笑不得的意味，似乎没有想到女人的眼泪可以这么多，盛得这么快，又觉得女人是小题大作了，但是很可爱。
　　他打开本子开始看，惊讶女人怎么写了那么多。男人一边看着，女人一边说话：“第一次吵架，是在第3天，而且还是一大早，你刚醒来有点懵懂，挤的牙膏不知道怎么的飞到镜子上了，那是我刚擦干净的，我说你连挤牙膏都不会啊，你就来脾气了，然后吵起来……”
　　男人沉默着。女人继续说：“有天晚上我让你帮洗下那几件衣服，因为水太凉，你只顾着玩游戏迟迟不肯动，后来吵起来，我很失望你忘记了我的生理期不能碰冷水，委屈……”
　　“还有一次，我很累了，你还不肯去洗澡睡觉，明明知道我特敏感，有点神经衰弱，哪怕一点点敲键盘的声音都能让我难以入睡，我一情急就说了你这个人自私的话，我们吵起来，你说了一大堆辩论自己不自私自私的人是我之后甩门出去上网通宵，我打你电话你没拿我又不敢自己一个人去找你……”
　　女人这时候有点激动了，眼球开始泛红，说：“还有一次……”男人打断了她的话，“亲爱的，别说了……”

沉默…长久的沉默……
　　还是女人打破了沉默：“是不是我们真的不合适？如果是这样，结婚了还是会离婚吧？我们的个性都那么强，谁都不肯退让。”

气氛有点尴尬。
　　本子里记录的事情都是那么细小的事情，每次吵架的原因都是那么的简单，男人看着这本子，似乎在体会着女人的心情，大男子是不会去计较这些小事，原本觉得每次和好之后都没事，女人就爱拿这些来说事，但是当他认真去看的时候，他也开始难过了，女人很细心，把事件、心情都写了，还自己总结了一下原因。原来最微小的事情累积起来是很让人痛苦的，他看得出，女人从失望慢慢变成绝望。
　　他想，大概是因为每次吵架，两人都是喜欢在吵架中找出对方不爱自己的证据。他突然意识到，这是个很严重的问题！而且每次吵架，双方都是在心情不稳定的时候，就是还有别的烦心事的时候，把不好的情绪带进了两个人的生活里。
　　“亲爱的别难过……”男人终于说话了：“我请个假，我们去旅游吧。”
　　他们去了第一次一起旅游的地方，太多美好的回忆被唤起，原来彼此是那么深深地爱着对方，这时的女人特别温柔，这时的男人特别体贴。
　　“亲爱的，你还认为我们结婚的话，会离婚么？”男人问。
　　“我想不是我们不合适，像现在，我们是那么快乐，一切都那么美好，可是一回到我们的现实生活里，为什么就变了呢？”

“亲爱的，难道我们现在不在现实里吗？”

“……”女人楞了。
　　“因为那时候我们都把注意力集中在负面的事物上并且放大了那些负面的心情。并且喜欢找对方不爱自己的证据，然后彼此个性都很倔不肯服输太要面子。”
　　女人觉得确实是如此，原来，双方只是需要一点点忍让，一点点包容。男人带她回顾这初次旅游的地点，是真的用心了，想起那时候他们在一起还不久，为了让对方觉得自己好，都表现出自己最好的一面。
　　“还有半个月，如果那瓶子还是半瓶，那么，亲爱的，嫁给我吧！”

女人钻进男人怀里笑开了颜
　　后来他们结婚了。很少再吵架。如果粗心的男人不小心碰掉了杯子，女人不会再开口就骂，因为在女人开口之前，男人已经在道歉，说对不起，都是我不小心的，赔两个给老婆！老婆尽管去选你喜欢的！女人就笑了，然后说，不用买啦，反正还有杯子，再说也不都是你的错，怪我自己没把杯子放好，让你碰到啦！
　　原来真的没有合适不合适，只有珍惜不珍惜，能一起走一起进步是幸福的！

HAPPIEST WORKING DAY

2010-04-24T02:33:00.001+10:00

Happy that I was assigned to be at the front counter for the cashier registering that day working! This was the very first time for me to deal with the customers during lunch hour (the busiest time everyday)! I was so nervous, but I managed to do the job smoothly with a little bit of mistake! Phew! There were some customers who really talk to me a lot and also gave me some good compliments which made me overjoy that day!

I still remembered there was a customer who only brought a credit card with him for his lunch, and our shop happened to accept CASH only! However, I had entered his order and I had to wait him to go all the way back to his office to get his money in order to get his lunch paid... Therefore, one of the cashier register was put by as to wait for his return... He came back with a $20 note on his hand, paying his order and smiled at me saying "You're so charming and delighting! Happy to be served by you and have a nice day!" I replied "Thank you and same to you!"... I was so so so happy when I heard his praise on me...^^

Then there was another guy who stood in front of the menu for a very long period of time deciding what to order... And he finally stepped in front of the counter and asked me "Shall I get the roasted duck with rice? Or shall I go with the beef brisket with rice? I will like to have both of them, but I can't finish all of them... Hmm... Which will you recommend me to have?" Then I was actually stunned for a moment, and I replied "I will choose the roasted duck, as it is always the fastest 'sold out' item everyday! You can have the brisket the other time!" Then he smile at me happily and said "Okay, I'll have one roasted duck with rice then... Thank you!" His expression was just so innocent, so cute!!! Hahahahaha...

That was my happiest working day ever!!!

TIRED OF YOU

2010-04-21T14:55:00.000+10:00

I'm so tired...so tired of you...spinning in my mind...

Yes! I like somebody else! Isn't it a good excuse for me to drag you out of my mind just for a little while? No matter it's a lie or a matter of self-comfort, it will still actually makes me relieve a bit...even just a bit...

I seriously don't know what happen to me. Everytime I receive your sms, it's like a stroke to me, my heart is still aching everytime I see your name appear in my phone! Why is this happening? I'm so tired of explaining things that you'll never get right... I'm so exhausted in reading your ludicrous messages which I'd explained for so many times and you refused to accept the truth! You're just so stubborn!

Just now when I was in the bus on my way home, listening to 'Boys Like Girls - Two Is Better Than One'...Recalling all the memories we had...My tears dropped out of my control, immediately I swiped away the tears on my cheeks...Telling myself again that... 'Yes! I like somebody else! I don't love YOU anymore!'...

Please stop acting like you care when you're no longer in love with me. Stop telling me that you're still angry because I like the other guy right after we broke up! I don't need to tell you HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU when we are no longer couple! I don't need to show HOW MUCH I CARE ABOUT YOU when you can only tell that I LIKE OTHER GUY BUT NOT YOU!

Just like what you said to me... "You just can't fit into my life, mix with my friends...etc" Yes! I can't fit into your life, not even for a tiny little part of your life...And like what you requested me to get out of your life! This time, I by-heart begging you please just leave me alone and get out of my mind!!!

REVENGE

2010-04-19T18:17:00.005+10:00

Just finished my Japanese Oral Presentation, feel so relaxing now! Phew! I was so nervous presenting just now! Luckily I managed to peep on the marking sheet of mine and it wasn't bad...at least everything is above average...Hahahaha... Went home after a half-an-hour presentation class!

Then I found out someone tagged me in a photo on Facebook! Damn HIM!!! Let me show you guys what he uploaded...

This really made me mad for awhile... but I took revenge on him instead... by posting another edited photo of him... Wakakakaka... And the outcome is...

LOL... I just can't stop laughing when I finished my 'product'... Ngek ngek ngek *cunning smile*

MY DINNER

2010-04-16T19:32:00.000+10:00

Dinner of today: Thai Red Curry Chicken with Rice!!!
A very simple recipe which I can prepare and cook in less then 5 minutes...
Don't believe it? I'll show you pictures on how I prepared... LOL

Da-dang! This is the recipe I was talking about... Easy, efficient, fast & cheap! The taste was not to say VERY delicious, but seriously it was really NOT bad at all! And the portion was just nice for me! However, there's one thing to be concerned -- it was 'a bit too' spicy for me... As I don't get used to eat spicy food! Eating something spicy will cause my tongue aching, red and sometimes swollen! T.T... Still I tend to challenge spicy food...! < PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT> !!!

HAVE YOU REALIZED?

2010-04-15T10:39:00.012+10:00

The feeling of love is always very sweet in the beginning,

There’s always one to accompany you, there’s always one to share with you,
You finally no longer alone, at least there’s always one that thinking of you,
Missing you, no matter what he/she is doing,
As long as you can be together, that will be the best….

.... But slowly, with the deeper understanding of each other,
You begin to discover each other's shortcomings,
The problem occurred one after another,
You start to feel vexed, tired, or even want to escape,
Some say love is like picking up rocks,
Always want to pick up a suitable own,
But how do you know when to pick up then?
Whether he/she is right for you, or do you fit him/her?

In fact, love is just like terrazzo,
Perhaps when you first picked up, you were not so satisfied,
But remember, one is always flexible,
Many things can be changed,
As long as you are intentional and courageous,
Rather than picking around with the unknown stone,
It’s better to sharpen the one you owned, don’t you think so?
Many people think that it’s because of the fading in passion,
Therefore, everyone starts to become lazier.
Wrong!
In fact one is overcome by inertia,
Therefore causing the lighten in passion.

** Example:
At a dinner occasion,
it was suggested that eating more shrimp is good for body.
At that time, there was a middle-aged man suddenly said, "Ten years ago, when my wife was still my girlfriend, if she said to eat 10 shrimps, I’ll peel 20 to her!
Now, if she wanted me to help her for the peeling, kidding! I don’t even feel interested in undressing her, not to say for the peeling!"
Heard that? Do you understand?

No wonder more and more people want to just fall in love and go together,
But has refused to get into marriage.
This is because; marriage can get one to become lazier.

If everyone…
is too lazy to speak,
is too lazy to listen,
is too lazy to create surprises,
is too lazy to be tender and considerate,
Then spouses or lovers,
How couldn’t it be drifted away further and further silently?

** So remember:
Great-hearted love,
Need to be devoted appropriately,
Love, is not to be lazy!

** Example:
There was a couple, dated to dinner and shopping after work,
But the girl was delayed on an important company meeting,
When she arrived under the rain, she had already late for 30 minutes,
His boyfriend was very unhappy and said:
“Every time you’ll be late, I’m no mood at all now,
I will not be waiting for you again!”
At that moment, the girl collapsed,
In her mind, she thought: Maybe they’ll never have their future together.

Similarly, in the same place, another couple is facing the same situation;
When the girl arrived late for half an hour,
His boyfriend, said: "I think you must had been busy!"
He then wiped the rainfall from her face, and covered her with his jacket,
At that moment, the girl in tears,
But it was the flow of warm and touched.

Can you feel it?
In fact, love or hate is often just one’s idea!
Love is not just to tolerate but to tolerate promptly,
Sometimes, there are just too many things to change one’s mind!
Do you get it?
When a person fall in love with you, and you feel good to him as well,
It does not mean that you will choose him.

We always say: "I’ll only be together with the one that I love the most.”
However when the others ask you, how do you determine as the most?
But you can’t answer them, because you don’t know, too.

Yes, we always think that we can found someone that we love the most,
But later, when we look back, we will find that how naive we were.
If we never started, how will you know whether he/she is the one you love the most?
In fact, you can only discover how deep the love is when you go through things together.
Perhaps everyone wants to be able to find their 100% partner,
But you have not thought about “someone may have already been paying out a lot for you, but you’ve not realized him/her yet?”
So, look around you carefully! He/she may have been waiting for you for a long time…

When you love someone, give it an index of 8,
All the expectations and hopes on him/her will be an index of just 7 or 8; keep the remaining 2 or 3 for your own good,
If you continue to give more, the other party is likely to feel the pressure, making each other to lose one’s breath,
Completely lost in the joy and pleasure of love.

** So remember:
An index of 6 for drinking,
An index of 7 for eating,
An index of 8 for loving someone!

If you are lost in love, perhaps the followings can give you some inspiration:

To love a person, you need…

To understand, but also to give advices;
To apologize, but also to be thankful;
To admit one’s fault, but also to straighten out;
To be considerate, but also understanding;
To accept, rather than to endure;
To tolerate, rather than to indulge;
To support, rather than to dominate;
To condole, rather than to interrogate;
To confide, rather than to complain;
To be memorable, but not to forget;
To communicate, rather than to confess;
To pray for him/her silently,
Rather than to demand from him/her;
Can be romantic, but not to squander.

Do not simply hold one’s hands,
Neither to simply let go…

PS: This is an English translation version of my previous post...^^ Enjoy!!!

你发觉了吗？

2010-04-14T21:01:00.003+10:00

爱的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜，
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担，
你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想著你、
恋著你，不论做什么事情，
只要能一起，就是好的....

....但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，
你开始发现了对方的缺点，
於是问题一个接著一个发生，
你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，
有人说爱情就像在捡石头，
总想捡到一个适合自己的，
但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？
他/她适合你，那你又适合他/她吗?

其实，爱情就像磨石子一样，
或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么的满意，
但是记住人是有弹性的，
很多事情是可以改变的，
只要你有心、有勇气，
与其到处去捡未知的石头，
还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮，你开始磨了吗？
很多人以为是因为感情淡了，
所以人才会变得懒惰。
错！
其实是人先被惰性征服，
所以感情才会变淡的。

在某个聚餐的场合，
有人提议多吃点虾对身体好，
这时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前，当我老婆还是我的女朋友的时候,她说要吃十只虾，我就剥二十只给她！
现在，如果她要我帮她剥虾壳，开玩笑！我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了，还剥虾壳咧！」
听到了吗？明白了吗？

难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱，
却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。
因为，婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。

如果每个人都
懒得讲话、
懒得倾听、
懒得制造惊喜、
懒得温柔体贴，
那么夫妻或是情人之间，
又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？
* 所以请记住：
有活力的爱情，
是需要适度殷勤灌溉的，
谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的喔！

有一对情侣，相约下班後去用餐、逛街，
可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了，
当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟，
他的男朋友很不高兴的说：
你每次都这样，现在我甚么心情也没了，
我以後再也不会等你了！
刹那间，女孩终於决堤崩溃了，
她心里在想：或许，他们再也没有未来了

同样的在同一个地点，另一对情侣也面临同样的处境；
女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头，
他的男朋友说：「我想你一定忙坏了吧！」
接著他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水，并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上，
此刻，女孩流泪了
但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。

你体会到了吗？
其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间！
爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时，
很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变罢了！
懂了吗？
当有个人爱上你，而你也觉得他不错。
那并不代表你会选择他。

我们总说：「我要找一个自己很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。」
但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，
你却无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。

没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。
可是後来，当我们猛然回首，我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。
假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？
其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。
或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，
但是你有没有想过『在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了，只是你没发觉而已呢？』
所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧！他或许已经等你很久了

当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对刚刚好。
所有的期待和希望都只有七八分；剩下两三分用来爱自己。
如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给对方沉重的压力，让彼此喘不过气来，
完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。
所以请记住，
喝酒不要超过六分醉，
吃饭不要超过七分饱，
爱一个人不要超过八分

如果你也正在为爱迷惘，或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示：
爱一个人，要了解，也要开解；
要道歉，也要道谢；
要认错，也要改错；
要体贴，也要体谅；
是接受，而不是忍受；
是宽容，而不是纵容；
是支持，而不是支配；
是慰问，而不是质问；
是倾诉，而不是控诉；
是难忘，而不是遗忘；
是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；
是为对方默默祈求，
而不是向对方诸多要求；
可以浪漫，但不要浪费.

不要随便牵手，
更不要随便放手...

7种女人让男人珍惜一辈子

2010-04-12T22:48:00.000+10:00

1.自重自爱的女人。

　　在现在如此快节奏的时代，一夜情已经被当成一种另类

的时尚。人们到底要求的是什么，仅仅是生理的需求吗？

　　人做为比动物高一等级的生物，不应该随着时代的发展

却进化到如此的地步。一个好的女人在遇到自己喜欢的男人

时，应该是先相处、了解对方是否合适自己以后，随着感情

的加深而顺其自然的发生的。

　　一个随随便便就和男人上床的女人，试问男人们，这样

的女人你们敢娶回家吗？

　　所以当你们遇到自重自爱的女人时应该好好的把握，比

竟这样的女人已经太少了。

　　2.有责任感的女人。

　　在现代只强调男人有责任感的时代，女人其实也应该有

责任感。

　　很多女人是为了权，为了利，为了钱，为了势和男人在

一起的。她们只不过把感情和肉体当做交换自己想得到的一

种工具而已。

　　这样的女人今天为了某些东西和你在一起，那么改天也

会为了得到其他的东西而离开你的。

　　如此不负责任的女人你敢要吗？好女人应该是对自己对

别人都有责任心的，在金钱面前有自控能力。

　　3.有思想的女人。

　　现代社会压力越来越大，男人在外打拼其实已经承受了

很多很大的压力。

　　一个有思想的女人应该能为男人分担一些压力，至少可

以有自己的事业和人生价值，并不是一味的依附于男人。

　　女人会在社会生活里和压力里学到很多东西，使自己历

练的越来越成熟，有韵味，也更坚强和勇敢。

　　有思想的女人在金钱面前有自控能力，是的谁不爱钱呀

，可是并不是有了钱就有了一切，你能买到真爱吗？感情和

婚姻如果只是建立在金钱上靠的住吗？当富贵不在的时候她

也就随之而去了。

　　所以有思想的女人明白自己要的是什么，而不是一味的

追逐名利和金钱。

　　4.疼爱男人也疼爱自己的女人。

　　不会疼爱自己的女人，男人也不会疼爱你的。

　　很多女人在爱情中为了所爱的人付出很多很多，却忽视

了自己的存在，到头了却换来男人的离弃。从某种角度上来

说男人的变心是女人给惯出来的。

　　男人永远是充满好奇的，再多的爱到最后男人只会觉得

是应该的，时间久了都不会珍惜的。

　　所以聪明的女人是先疼爱自己，爱惜自己的身体，疼爱

自己容貌，时时更新变化自己的外在，让男人对自己一直感

兴趣。

　　遇到这样的女人，男人想不疼都不行。

　　 5.有自己的空间，也给男人足够空间的女人。

　　这样的女人有自己的朋友，当不开心的时候可以和朋友

倾诉，不一定要把自己的烦恼都抛给自己的另一半，正所谓

旁观者清。

　　也有自己的异性好友，但是她非常清楚和他的关系，不

需要你的担心，她会很清楚的把握界限的。她会给你足够的

空间，你有你的自由，她信任你。在事业上支持你。

　　6.上得厅堂，下得厨房。

　　虽然是老调重谈了，可是不管社会如何的发展，男人们

还是希望自己的老婆在外是光鲜亮丽的，回到家后就有一桌

可口的饭菜。

　　但是对于女人来说要做到这一点实在是很不容易的。所

以女人们加油吧！

　　这样的女人很关心你，照顾你。当然在外的时候也会给

足你面子。

　　 7.用心爱你的女人

　　她不一定是最漂亮的女人，不一定是最有气质的，不一

定是最聪明的，但他一定是最爱你的。

　　她会在你生病的时候守侯照顾你；在你烦恼时听你发泄

抱怨，给你鼓励；在你需要她的时候给你无私的关怀，和最

大的帮助。也许她有一点唠叨，可那是因为爱你！

　　编后语：

　　男人们当你们遇到拥有以上特点的女人时，请你们好好

的珍惜她。不一定所有的特征都满足，挑出你最在意的3点

，当她满足了这3点时，她就是你最值得一辈子去珍惜的人

。女人们，你们就要努力让自己成为这样的女人了……

ANNOYING

2010-04-12T16:26:00.000+10:00

Was awaken by a call this morning! DAMN! The whatever survey thingy again! They just can't give up on calling me? Why? This time, telling me that I got the 2nd prize in their lucky draw few weeks back which worth a AUD 150,000! Are you kidding me? Am I that lucky? I just didn't want to waste too much time on talking with the person on the other side, so I pretended to be very disinterested on the winning of the lucky draw, yet she didn't give up on persuading me to believe it! Talked with her in the phone for like almost 1 hour, darn it! She just won't give up, so I have no choice but to give her some of my simple personal details which she said she needed it for transferring my prize over! Blah Blah Blah! Next, she asked me to confirm this confirm that and also talked with her manager for confirmation! Again, blah blah blah! I got no mood to listen to her bullshit! I slighted over with her and hung up the call! Argh!!! So irritating and annoying!!!

Then I went to work. Finished my shift around 3pm just now, and I went straight to the Hazel Tea Shop to get a pearl milk tea! Seriously, the 'pearl' was awesome! It's sweet enough and chewy! Once you had it, you can never resist it! Trust me!!! I fall in love with the chewiness and the sweetness of the 'pearl', ghastly, I finished the whole cup in just 5 mins! Now I know why my friends kept recommending me to this shop! Managed to get the photos on it's empty cup because... before I was able to reach home, the pearl milk tea had already finished! LOL!

PALAZZO VERSACE

2010-04-09T17:23:00.013+10:00

Woke up early in the morning about 8.30am, got ready to go to Harbour Town! A shopping paradise with cheaper stuff price compare with Brisbane! Was so excited about the trip... We had our tuna sandwiches as breakfast in the car prepared by Stella... Took about 45mins drive and finally, we reached our destination!!!

The very 1st thing that caught my eyes was the fruits piled up like mountain just at the entrance of Harbour Town! Later on, while I was walking around with my friends, I spotted something displayed on the showcase of a gift shop -- Skull! Hahahaha... One of my favourite item!

We decided to split up for our own shopping... So, I went straight to City Beach to get something I'd been longing for -- surfing pants and tees! The shop was on sale, everything was almost half of the original price! I managed to grab 2 pants and 2 tees! And there was a shopkeeper shouting with her megaphone " It's now a 5mins discount time for all the tops~ Whoever brings me their tops will get another extra discount on the price... $20 will be $10 and $ 17 will be $12 etc... " I rushed to her spot and you guess what? I got an extra $20 discount for my tees! Then, I went to Ralph Lauren where the skinny-cut polo tee was only $59 ea! I wanted to grab the black one but it was out of stock, so I got no choice but to choose the pink one as I had the white one already! After that, I met up with one of my friends and had some donuts, where I spotted a cute little baby sitting in his stroller! I tried to sneak-shot on him but he finally caught me~! Hahaha! Lastly, I bought another 2 tees from Nike for only $30! SATISFACTION!!!

After the shopping, we went straight to Surfers' Paradise! They bought kites for the beach... Managed to fly one of the kites, and failed the other one! LOL! The girls started camwhore session again which the guys had to suffer a bit to be our cameraman! Hahahaha!

Around 6pm, we got prepared and headed off to Palazzo Versace! Had our $82 buffet dinner there! It was really a nice place! All the decorations and the fitments were perfect! The waiter told us that the candle stand was costing $700++. LOL! However, the buffet was really so-so! The food that I liked the most was the dessert -- Tiramisu! The most important thing that I wanted to mention is -- the toilet! The interior of the toilet was really awesome! It was just luxurious! Last but not least, you can found the VERSACE everywhere at the place...the wall, the cushions, the utensils, the menu...and even the tap!

EASTER PARTY

2010-04-06T21:00:00.004+10:00

Really had a lot of fun last night at Family for Klub Kandy Easter Costume Party! People with gorgeous outfits queuing along the building for hours just to get into that event! We went there around 9.30pm, entered the place about 10pm, got the stamp for the event, walked around the interior space and came out for food hunting! It was still too early for the event and the crowd! Therefore, we went to a nearby McD for a bite! While eating, we had a lot of camwhore pictures as well... LOL! around 11++pm, we went back into the pub and danced to the max!!! I was sweating like hell, with my 4.5 inches heels killing me, yet I wanted to dance away with my buddies whole night long! However, I failed to conquer the pain! Rushed to the nearest seat and rest my legs for a bit... We had a few drinks and left around 1am... Some of us need to work the next day, so we had to leave earlier! Tired still FUN!!!

PS: Event photos were uploaded in my Facebook

(http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=409867&id=891680079&ref=mf)

Sorry for my laziness of posting photos here!! XD

WEIRD DREAM

2010-04-04T10:33:00.006+10:00

Was having a potluck party at my friend's house last night! Before that in the afternoon, 7 of us went to UQ Sports Centre to attend the Mini Olympic hold by UQHKSA!

They consisted of 4 different types of sports (badminton, basketball, volleyball, soccer) for all the members/non-members to participate in! The hall was crowded with people and the event started punctually at 1pm! All people took part eagerly and really had fun!!! I was busy taking pictures at 1st, then ended up in a basketball play because my friend's team got a vacant spot! After that, we grouped for the volleyball session and unbelievably, I still managed to score 2 points for our team just by serving! XD... And for the 3rd ball, I sprained my arm! Sigh!

We left the event around 4.30pm, headed home to bath and went straight to Stella's house for the preparation of food. We made baked tuna pasta, fried noodles and Caesar salad! Reached the potluck party around 8pm, having lots of fun...

Had an really idiot dream last night which I was awoke early in the morning around 6am! How could I have such dream? This really frightened me... I can't stop slapping my own face after the awakening! DAMN!!! How can I had such fucking idiot stupid dream!!! (please allow me to be vulgar, sorry!)

HOLIDAYS

2010-04-01T22:42:00.006+10:00

Was on the phone with him last night until 3am, ended up I was late to work this morning for 5 minutes. On my way to my working place, I saw someone dressed like some kinda cosplay costume! Look exactly like some of the costume designs in a game called AUDITION! It really did catch one's eyes early in the morning with his draggle-tail black jacket hits the floor and his bloody-red dye on half of his hair!!!

Really tried my best to do all the works before the shop open, still I failed which I was supposed to finish everything alone around 10.00am! Luckily I managed to finish up everything before 10.30am, and the customers only started to come around 11.00am. Phew!!! Today was not really considered hectic as to compare with days before, as we got more staffs on my shift. Felt so release to see more staffs, at least I won't be the only one to clear up the tables alone rushing in and out of the kitchen just to provide available seats for the overloading customers during lunch hours!

AND...... Tomorrow is HOLIDAY and a continuing one for the next whole week! WOOHOO!!! Can't wait for the Easter party to come! Monday! Monday! Monday! However, thinking of the shift for Tuesday, this is really a pull-down mood for me! Sigh!

* He - SN

RUSH RUSH

2010-03-30T01:02:00.004+10:00

Another tiring day of working! Had a shift of 5.5 hours, but today didn't seem to be as busy as last Wednesday, I wonder why? Hmmm... One of the staffs taught me on how to deal with the front counter, how to take orders and how to operate the cash register! I was so excited but nervous when I was facing the customers to take the orders, so worried that I was going to get any mistakes! However, everything went smoothly... It's time for me to memorize the menu as soon as possible so that I won't be that panic anymore! Woohoo~!

Had a cup of jasmine green tea on my way to the bus stop, passed by a crowd which caught my attention! I stopped and checked out what was happening among the crowd... There was a street performer in the crowd performing his tricks and everyone was surrounding him for his show with a burst of applause after each of his tricks! It was awesome and fun... Stopped for about 5 minutes and managed to get some pictures from far as I was actually should be rushing home for preparation of my evening class! XD

SHOP FOR EASTER

2010-03-28T23:03:00.005+10:00

Awoken by a loud banging sound of the door this morning, wondered what was happening? Who the hell was banging the door so hard? After that, I can no longer fall asleep, so I had to wake up. Ate some of the leftover food, can't manage to finish the whole thing, I put it back to the fridge. Walked into the shower and ready up for another shopping session! Main purpose was to buy my slippers!

Reached the city and met up with my friend around 12.45pm, went to Hanaichi for lunch, waited about 15 minutes on the queue! Then, we went straight to City Beach to grab my slippers! However, some of the items were on season sale! We were so excited and busy seeking for cheap items! Was unable to find my slippers from the adult section, so I went to the teenager section! Finally, I got a pair of Roxy with Rainbow design...

Moved back to the adult section where another friend had just arrived, they started to search for bikinis! The bikinis were all ON SALE! Can't really resist the temptation of it, I rushed to join my friends on the search! Tried for several and we each got a pair of bikinis! Planning for a trip to Gold Coast during Easter break which the bikinis can soon come in handy! LOL!

Went to Dotti and this time, my friend bought a black twinkling cap which she decided to wear it for Easter event of Klub Kandy! Then, we went for some nail colours which costing only $2 each... My friend bought almost half a dozen!

After that, we went to Starbucks for a drink and got our dinner at a Vietnamese Restaurant before going home!

What a big spending day again!!! Tomorrow is going to be another busy working day (although it's only for 4 hours with a lunch period of 2 hours)! Tired! So tired!

PARTY

2010-03-27T13:39:00.005+10:00

Had my Tech 4 exam yesterday at 1pm, discussed about some of the test paper with friends before entering the exam hall, but we were still all kinda blur about how to do! It was something to do with Physics, and undeniable my Physics is always suck! That was an open-book exam, but it didn't seem to help much! Wahahahaha~! However, I did try my best to answer all the questions!

Reached home around 4.30 after the exam, sat back in front of my laptop which had been resting for the whole day! LOL! Checked on the emails and started surfing Facebook again! Nothing much to do actually. Prepared up myself to get ready for Stella's birthday at her apartment, I walked about 15 minutes to her house somewhere around Toowong. The food she prepared was awesome, so envy that she can cook so well! We enjoyed the food so much and after that... It's alcohol time!!! We had beers, wine and as well hard liquor~! We drank, we sang, we danced and we took photos! Really enjoy the food, drinks and the music a lot~! Kinda dizzy after drinking mixture of all the alcohols. Went back home around 12am, it was really fun but tiring! All the girls planned to go to KlubKandy for Easter celebration on 5th Arpil! WooHoo... Can't wait till then!

Checked my phone this morning and I just realised that my iPhone was on silent mode all the time. I had 9 missed calls from my mom! GOSH! Called her back immediately and she was so angry... 'I'm so sorry, mom!' And from her, I got to know that my brother was infected by Dengue fever again... The third time he got this, SIGH~! Wish that he can recover as soon as possible! Take care yo, BRO!

你会这样做吗？

2010-03-25T20:25:00.001+10:00

1 经常亲吻她，趁她不注意
2 过马路时牵她的手。即使吵架。
3 一定要有属于你们自己的房子，即使不大。
4 一起听她喜欢的歌和她爱看的电影，陪她感动。
5 让她躺在你的腿上，可以抚摸她的头发。
6 她洗澡的时候唱歌给她听，让她不觉得闷。
7 哄她吃她不爱吃但有营养的食物。
8 用情侣牙刷，然后把你的牙刷和她的偷偷换一下。
9 当她很累时给她捏捏肩，捏捏脚，然后挠她脚心逗她开心。
10 偷偷录下她走来走去和睡觉的样子。不管她耍赖还是威胁就是不删。
11 没有理由的抱抱她。
12 她写的东西我一定用心的看，读懂内心的那个她。
13 周末为她做她喜欢吃的东西，然后散步。
14 在大天广众之下背她或停下来拥抱她。
15 在街上走的时候不会离她超过1米远的距离。
16 进餐厅的门或出图书馆的时候一定为她拉门让她先走。
17 陪她买菜杀价，她做饭你做汤。
18 趁她半睡半醒间为她盖被子，醒来先看看熟睡的她，然后亲一下她的额头。
19 在她特殊时期为她端上热的红糖水，然后若无其事的看电视。
20 偶尔早上打电话给她，听她佣懒的声音然后问她想吃什么给她带回去。
21 给她取可爱的外号，只有你能叫。
22 手机和电脑的背景一定是她的照片或你们的合影。
23 手机上的昵称一定是和别人不一样的，当你打给她时，她的姐妹看到会很羡慕。
24 在家帮她梳个幼稚的发型，然后叫她女儿。
25 如果出差一定带东西给她，虽然不贵，但证明你时刻都在想着她。
26 她坐上车，一定先为她拉上安全带，再为自己拉。
27 当她想要松开的时候一定再坚持抱她一会。
28 永远不会丢下她一个人，就算你无理取闹也一定要让她安全。
29 你心情不好的时候能同她说说，如果你不想说，就让你抱一下。
30 刚上的饭菜一定装作抢着吃的样子，多为她夹些。
31 当她无助时你能陪她爬爬山，看看夕阳。
32 吵架后绝对不冷战，哄她之后告诉她你是为她好。
33 睡觉的时候喜欢她抱着你，但当她背过身去一定也转身然后再抱她。
34 在她做家务的时候为她拍照，告诉她穿围裙的样子也一样很美。
35 如果她生病了一定细心照顾她，因为这时候她最脆弱，为她熬大大大补汤。
36 钱包里一定有她的照片。
37 下班回来一定会大声的说：老婆，我回来了。
38 半夜故意把被子往自己这边拉，让她离自己近些。
39 听她嘱咐我按时吃饭，多喝水多吃水果，说她罗嗦然后吻她。
40 打雷的时候把她揽到怀里睡，然后说：我怕怕。
41 帮她擦她吃东西留在嘴边的奶油的和果酱。
42 留一点点的胡渣在亲她的时候扎扎她。
43 在她的朋友面前细心的照顾她，让他们知道她的选择是对的。
44 在你的朋友面前细心的照顾她，不让她觉得你冷落了她。
45 有生之年陪她去趟她喜欢的城市或国家。
46 当她发呆，做饭，拖地或趴在阳台的时候，你会在身后揽住她。
47 不许她说对不起。告诉她这是圣旨。但可以用老公真好这四个字来代替。
48 即使是冬天，她说口渴你也会一溜烟下床帮她倒水，但回来她必须帮你暖身子。
49 当她钱包里钱不多的时候，你会拿给她说：帮我买双袜子，不用找了。
50 让她爱上你爱的游戏，让她爱上你爱的球队。
51 一起养只宠物。
52 在她能看到的地方写篇文章。
53 带她去游乐园，电影院，图书馆，博物馆，漫画展和小酒吧。
54 有一首关于我们故事的歌。每次去KTV都要唱。
55 当她要和你商量事情或说不开心的事的时候，一定放下手中的东西认真听。
56 如果有天她要离开你，你会挽留，也会放她走。告诉她受委屈的时候来找你。
57 抱着一颗感激的心和她相处，当你想发脾气的时候，你要学会忍耐。
58 下雨的时候打一把伞，迈一样的步伐踩水花不让天气影响她的心情。
59 去餐厅点她喜欢的菜，如果实在点不出就点没吃过的，一起喊好吃或难吃。
60 在你朋友和父母面前会夸赞她。不管她是否在场。
61 当她不理你时，就模仿她的动作、她的声音、她的表情、她撒娇时说的话。
62 送她回家一定把她送到门口，告诉她明天会来接她。
63 如果你有一天出了意外，希望她能找个人替你爱她照顾她。

1ST WORKING DAY

2010-03-25T11:45:00.003+10:00

What a tiring day yesterday! Started my 1^st day, working in a restaurant in the city. Everything was so new to me, new staffs, new environment, and new experience! Arrived at the restaurant around 9.20am and waited for the manager to come around 9.30am. She taught me a lot before we got into the busy lunch hours! I couldn’t be at the front counter because I was still newbie and was not familiar with the menu yet, so I was in charge of the cleaning up! Rushed in and out to clear the table for the flow of customers! It was not really easy to work during the lunch hours and I was in the shift! It was really busy and tiring. However, the manager told me that it was not really considered busy yesterday! OMG! Are you sure? That was not considered a busy one? Then I really can’t imagine how busy will it be if it is considered “BUSY”! Finish my shift around 2pm, it was time for me to go home and ready up for my evening class!

At night, I tried to call him and asked for my test paper which I sent him requesting his help on some questions! However, he was out for supper with his client, AGAIN! Failed to ask what I wanted to, I hung up the call.

Was not able to fall asleep after I had lied on the bed for about half an hour, picked up my phone again, I called him instead! He didn’t pick up my call. Got his SMS after few seconds telling me that he missed my call. I called back again and we talked. He was as well hanging out with a bunch of friends at a stall near his apartment. Was planning to hang up the call so that I won’t be disturbing him for the hang out, but he insisted to talk! Okay, at least he is a different one! We talked for about an hour, and I was grumbling a lot. He is really a good friend to talk to; he never rejects my request, even though how ridiculous my request will be… He is being a caring one; he’ll always be the one accompanying me whenever I need him to. Seriously, having a good friend like him is really much better than having a lover who can hardly be there for me when I need him to be!!!

* he = SN, he = B

三角爱情游戏

2010-03-22T14:53:00.005+10:00

这是一个不长不短的故事, 很复杂, 很愚蠢的三角爱情游戏…

珍是一个毕了业等着进入大学而无所事事的小女孩, 假期里来到了一间公司当实习生, 好充实下自己! 在公司里呆了快五个月, 在最后一个月里, 遇见了一个刚被调派回来的员工, 第一次的相遇, 是在羽球场上…

习惯了每个礼拜都会有两三天和同事们的羽球运动, 和往常一样, 珍到了羽球场, 却看见了一个陌生的脸孔. 他是谁? 后来从同事们的口中知道他是刚被调派回来的, 从现在开始就和他们一起工作… 没把他当一回事, 珍继续打球… 可是, 他却让珍注意到了他的存在, 他的羽球技术很好, 身手灵活, 虽然样子平凡, 但是球场上的他很引人注意… 回家之前, 稍稍在球场外聊了一下, 才知道他叫邬… 后来有人提议晚上去唱歌喝酒, 没人反对, 也就这样成事了, 邬却说他不想开车, 问他住哪里, 结果跟珍住的地方较近, 所以也就是珍去载他咯! 晚上, 到了他家门口去接他, 上车的时候闻到一股淡淡的香水味, 还真不错, 聊天之间才知道他已经三十出头! 看上去不太像, 过后的活动也没有什么特别的…

接下来的日子, 邬开始显得对珍很关心, 每天会定时找珍聊天, 晚上还会约珍出去喝茶聊天… 珍生病了, 邬还会特地送药来给珍, 对珍百般照顾, 呵护… 后来, 两个人变得很亲密, 有点像暧昧, 有点像情侣, 珍分不清楚到底是怎么一回事, 只是知道, 珍爱上了邬… 邬会带着珍回家见他的家人, 带着珍和他家人吃晚饭逛书展… 珍那时候真的感觉到很幸福…

过了一些日子, 珍发现邬找她的时间越来越少, 不再对珍嘘寒问暖… 相反的,在羽球场上发现, 他以前对珍的关心举动, 现在出现在另外一个女孩身上, 同样也是同事的莎… 为什么会那样? 珍不明白, 心很痛, 伤得很痛… 同事们也看不下去, 除了安慰, 也没有什么能够做的… 珍很想问个明白, 到底之前他对她的是真实的吗? 还是虚有其表? 珍不明白, 邬为什么可以改变的那么快? 邬说过珍是他遇见最体贴的, 也说过他很喜欢珍, 说过不管发生什么, 他都会陪在珍的身边的… 为什么?

忍无可忍之下, 珍打了通电话问个清楚, 得到的答案是更伤人的, “我和莎已经在一起了!” 当下的珍, 才知道自己一直都是一厢情愿, 一直都是个傻瓜… 莎也不是一个白痴, 她从头到尾都知道珍和邬的事, 她知道这样很对不起珍, 于是为了求证, 她拨了通电话给珍, 结果才知道, 邬是个大骗子, 说的话都不一至! 莎很生气, 挂了电话, 马上就和邬提出分手…

后来的日子里, 同事们没有再约邬出来… 间中还是会听到邬的消息, 说他又有了新的女朋友,后来不到一个月,又换了另一个女朋友… 断断续续的, 珍也不想再理会了…

最近,珍在面子书上发现了邬的踪影, 相片里是邬和他现任女友的照片… 上传者是珍好朋友的前男友(一个禽兽都不如的人渣) 的女友, 而邬的那位女友, 正是那位人渣女友的姐妹… 短短的几个月里, 邬不懂换了多少个女友… 现任女友听说是个酒吧妹呢!

你说, 这个世界是不是很小??? 真的很可笑… 他果然是珍最恨的一个人!!!

SHOPPING

2010-03-21T17:59:00.005+10:00

Woke up quite late this morning around 11am, decided just to have some milk until afternoon. Met up with my friend at the city and we had our lunch at one of the shop in Elizabeth Arcade. The food was so so. Walked around the city not knowing what to buy for Stella as her birthday gift, we went to Myer and ended up we were shopping for ourselves! LOL! Based on what Jace and Sam told me, Stella likes rose product and Anna Sui. There's no Anna Sui at the city except perfume and we don't want to buy any of that for her. At last, we managed to get some rose products from L'Occitane! Hope she'll like them! Then, we did our own shopping again, and both buying the same handbag from Guess! The outlet was having 25% sale for all items! How can we miss the chance?

After that, we went for ice-cream and sat on the bench for a little chitchat! Suddenly, a stranger was shouting at us and approached us! Out of no where, he sat down beside me and started to chat up with me! GOSH! Who the hell is he? I was so shocked and he kept on talking and talking non-stop asking me questions! He asked us to join him and his friend for a drink! What the hack? I rejected him politely, he finally gave up and walked away! What a weirdo!!! It's time to go home, I grabbed Subway on my way home for dinner! What a happy shopping day and weekend...^^

DRIBS & DRABS of J

十二大情人节

百般纠结

这个假期

HOLIDAY

PHOBIC

感动。朋友

戒指的意义

END OF SEMESTER

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